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Most
elements
of
romantic
love
that
we
pursue
—
the
dramatic
and
dizzyingly
emotional
displays
of
affection
,
the
topsy
-
turvy
ups
and
downs
—
aren
’
t
healthy
,
genuine
displays
of
love
.
In
fact
,
they
’
re
often
just
another
form
of
entitlement
playing
out
through
people
’
s
relationships
.
I
know
:
that
makes
me
sound
like
such
a
downer
.
Seriously
,
what
kind
of
guy
shits
on
romantic
love
?
But
hear
me
out
.
The
truth
is
,
there
are
healthy
forms
of
love
and
unhealthy
forms
of
love
.
Unhealthy
love
is
based
on
two
people
trying
to
escape
their
problems
through
their
emotions
for
each
other
—
in
other
words
,
they
’
re
using
each
other
as
an
escape
.
Healthy
love
is
based
on
two
people
acknowledging
and
addressing
their
own
problems
with
each
other
’
s
support
.
The
difference
between
a
healthy
and
an
unhealthy
relationship
comes
down
to
two
things
:
1
)
how
well
each
person
in
the
relationship
accepts
responsibility
,
and
2
)
the
willingness
of
each
person
to
both
reject
and
be
rejected
by
their
partner
.
Anywhere
there
is
an
unhealthy
or
toxic
relationship
,
there
will
be
a
poor
and
porous
sense
of
responsibility
on
both
sides
,
and
there
will
be
an
inability
to
give
and
/
or
receive
rejection
.
Wherever
there
is
a
healthy
and
loving
relationship
,
there
will
be
clear
boundaries
between
the
two
people
and
their
values
,
and
there
will
be
an
open
avenue
of
giving
and
receiving
rejection
when
necessary
.
By
“
boundaries
”
I
mean
the
delineation
between
two
people
’
s
responsibilities
for
their
own
problems
.
People
in
a
healthy
relationship
with
strong
boundaries
will
take
responsibility
for
their
own
values
and
problems
and
not
take
responsibility
for
their
partner
’
s
values
and
problems
.
People
in
a
toxic
relationship
with
poor
or
no
boundaries
will
regularly
avoid
responsibility
for
their
own
problems
and
/
or
take
responsibility
for
their
partner
’
s
problems
.
What
do
poor
boundaries
look
like
?
Here
are
some
examples
:
“
You
can
’
t
go
out
with
your
friends
without
me
.
You
know
how
jealous
I
get
.
You
have
to
stay
home
with
me
.
”
