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This
value
gave
him
awful
problems
such
as
,
“
I
need
to
sell
150
million
more
records
;
then
everything
will
be
great
,
”
and
“
My
next
tour
needs
to
be
nothing
but
stadiums
”
—
problems
he
thought
he
needed
to
solve
in
order
to
be
happy
.
It
’
s
no
surprise
that
he
wasn
’
t
.
On
the
contrary
,
Pete
Best
pulled
a
switcheroo
.
Despite
being
depressed
and
distraught
by
getting
kicked
out
of
the
Beatles
,
as
he
grew
older
he
learned
to
reprioritize
what
he
cared
about
and
was
able
to
measure
his
life
in
a
new
light
.
Because
of
this
,
Best
grew
into
a
happy
and
healthy
old
man
,
with
an
easy
life
and
great
family
—
things
that
,
ironically
,
the
four
Beatles
would
spend
decades
struggling
to
achieve
or
maintain
.
When
we
have
poor
values
—
that
is
,
poor
standards
we
set
for
ourselves
and
others
—
we
are
essentially
giving
fucks
about
the
things
that
don
’
t
matter
,
things
that
in
fact
make
our
life
worse
.
But
when
we
choose
better
values
,
we
are
able
to
divert
our
fucks
to
something
better
—
toward
things
that
matter
,
things
that
improve
the
state
of
our
well
-
being
and
that
generate
happiness
,
pleasure
,
and
success
as
side
effects
.
This
,
in
a
nutshell
,
is
what
“
self
-
improvement
”
is
really
about
:
prioritizing
better
values
,
choosing
better
things
to
give
a
fuck
about
.
Because
when
you
give
better
fucks
,
you
get
better
problems
.
And
when
you
get
better
problems
,
you
get
a
better
life
.
The
rest
of
this
book
is
dedicated
to
five
counterintuitive
values
that
I
believe
are
the
most
beneficial
values
one
can
adopt
All
follow
the
“
backwards
law
”
we
talked
about
earlier
,
in
that
they
’
re
“
negative
.
”
All
require
confronting
deeper
problems
rather
than
avoiding
them
through
highs
.
These
five
values
are
both
unconventional
and
uncomfortable
.
But
,
to
me
,
they
are
life
-
changing
.
The
first
,
which
we
’
ll
look
at
in
the
next
chapter
,
is
a
radical
form
of
responsibility
:
taking
responsibility
for
everything
that
occurs
in
your
life
,
regardless
of
who
’
s
at
fault
.
The
second
is
uncertainty
:
the
acknowledgement
of
your
own
ignorance
and
the
cultivation
of
constant
doubt
in
your
own
beliefs
.
The
next
is
failure
:
the
willingness
to
discover
your
own
flaws
and
mistakes
so
that
they
may
be
improved
upon
.
The
fourth
is
rejection
:
the
ability
to
both
say
and
hear
no
,
thus
clearly
defining
what
you
will
and
will
not
accept
in
your
life
.
The
final
value
is
the
contemplation
of
one
’
s
own
mortality
;
this
one
is
crucial
,
because
paying
vigilant
attention
to
one
’
s
own
death
is
perhaps
the
only
thing
capable
of
helping
us
keep
all
our
other
values
in
proper
perspective
.
Imagine
that
somebody
puts
a
gun
to
your
head
and
tells
you
that
you
have
to
run
26
.
2
miles
in
under
five
hours
,
or
else
he
’
ll
kill
you
and
your
entire
family
.
That
would
suck
.
Now
imagine
that
you
bought
nice
shoes
and
running
gear
,
trained
religiously
for
months
,
and
completed
your
first
marathon
with
all
of
your
closest
family
and
friends
cheering
you
on
at
the
finish
line
.
