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Bad
values
are
1
)
superstitious
,
2
)
socially
destructive
,
and
3
)
not
immediate
or
controllable
.
Honesty
is
a
good
value
because
it
’
s
something
you
have
complete
control
over
,
it
reflects
reality
,
and
it
benefits
others
(
even
if
it
’
s
sometimes
unpleasant
)
.
Popularity
,
on
the
other
hand
,
is
a
bad
value
.
If
that
’
s
your
value
,
and
if
your
metric
is
being
the
most
popular
guy
/
girl
at
the
dance
party
,
much
of
what
happens
will
be
out
of
your
control
:
you
don
’
t
know
who
else
will
be
at
the
event
,
and
you
probably
won
’
t
know
who
half
those
people
are
.
Second
,
the
value
/
metric
isn
’
t
based
on
reality
:
you
may
feel
popular
or
unpopular
,
when
in
fact
you
have
no
fucking
clue
what
anybody
else
really
thinks
about
you
.
(
Side
Note
:
As
a
rule
,
people
who
are
terrified
of
what
others
think
about
them
are
actually
terrified
of
all
the
shitty
things
they
think
about
themselves
being
reflected
back
at
them
.
)
Some
examples
of
good
,
healthy
values
:
honesty
,
innovation
,
vulnerability
,
standing
up
for
oneself
,
standing
up
for
others
,
self
-
respect
,
curiosity
,
charity
,
humility
,
creativity
.
Some
examples
of
bad
,
unhealthy
values
:
dominance
through
manipulation
or
violence
,
indiscriminate
fucking
,
feeling
good
all
the
time
,
always
being
the
center
of
attention
,
not
being
alone
,
being
liked
by
everybody
,
being
rich
for
the
sake
of
being
rich
,
sacrificing
small
animals
to
the
pagan
gods
.
You
’
ll
notice
that
good
,
healthy
values
are
achieved
internally
.
Something
like
creativity
or
humility
can
be
experienced
right
now
.
You
simply
have
to
orient
your
mind
in
a
certain
way
to
experience
it
.
These
values
are
immediate
and
controllable
and
engage
you
with
the
world
as
it
is
rather
than
how
you
wish
it
were
.
Bad
values
are
generally
reliant
on
external
events
—
flying
in
a
private
jet
,
being
told
you
’
re
right
all
the
time
,
owning
a
house
in
the
Bahamas
,
eating
a
cannoli
while
getting
blown
by
three
strippers
.
Bad
values
,
while
sometimes
fun
or
pleasurable
,
lie
outside
of
your
control
and
often
require
socially
destructive
or
superstitious
means
to
achieve
.
Values
are
about
prioritization
.
Everybody
would
love
a
good
cannoli
or
a
house
in
the
Bahamas
.
The
question
is
your
priorities
.
What
are
the
values
that
you
prioritize
above
everything
else
,
and
that
therefore
influence
your
decision
-
making
more
than
anything
else
?
Hiroo
Onoda
’
s
highest
value
was
complete
loyalty
and
service
to
the
Japanese
empire
.
This
value
,
in
case
you
couldn
’
t
tell
from
reading
about
him
,
stank
worse
than
a
rotten
sushi
roll
.
It
created
really
shitty
problems
for
Hiroo
—
namely
,
he
got
stuck
on
a
remote
island
where
he
lived
off
bugs
and
worms
for
thirty
years
.
Oh
,
and
he
felt
compelled
to
murder
innocent
civilians
too
.
So
despite
the
fact
that
Hiroo
saw
himself
as
a
success
,
and
despite
the
fact
he
lived
up
to
his
metrics
,
I
think
we
can
all
agree
that
his
life
really
sucked
—
none
of
us
would
trade
shoes
with
him
given
the
opportunity
,
nor
would
we
commend
his
actions
.
Dave
Mustaine
achieved
great
fame
and
glory
and
felt
like
a
failure
anyway
.
This
is
because
he
’
d
adopted
a
crappy
value
based
on
some
arbitrary
comparison
to
the
success
of
others
.
