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Beliefs
of
this
sort
—
that
I
’
m
not
attractive
enough
,
so
why
bother
;
or
that
my
boss
is
an
asshole
,
so
why
bother
—
are
designed
to
give
us
moderate
comfort
now
by
mortgaging
greater
happiness
and
success
later
on
.
They
’
re
terrible
long
-
term
strategies
,
yet
we
cling
to
them
because
we
assume
we
’
re
right
,
because
we
assume
we
already
know
what
’
s
supposed
to
happen
.
In
other
words
,
we
assume
we
know
how
the
story
ends
.
Certainty
is
the
enemy
of
growth
.
Nothing
is
for
certain
until
it
has
already
happened
—
and
even
then
,
it
’
s
still
debatable
.
That
’
s
why
accepting
the
inevitable
imperfections
of
our
values
is
necessary
for
any
growth
to
take
place
.
Instead
of
striving
for
certainty
,
we
should
be
in
constant
search
of
doubt
:
doubt
about
our
own
beliefs
,
doubt
about
our
own
feelings
,
doubt
about
what
the
future
may
hold
for
us
unless
we
get
out
there
and
create
it
for
ourselves
.
Instead
of
looking
to
be
right
all
the
time
,
we
should
be
looking
for
how
we
’
re
wrong
all
the
time
.
Because
we
are
.
Being
wrong
opens
us
up
to
the
possibility
of
change
.
Being
wrong
brings
the
opportunity
for
growth
.
It
means
not
cutting
your
arm
open
to
cure
a
cold
or
splashing
dog
piss
on
your
face
to
look
young
again
.
It
means
not
thinking
“
mediocre
”
is
a
vegetable
,
and
not
being
afraid
to
care
about
things
.
Because
here
’
s
something
that
’
s
weird
but
true
:
we
don
’
t
actually
know
what
a
positive
or
negative
experience
is
.
Some
of
the
most
difficult
and
stressful
moments
of
our
lives
also
end
up
being
the
most
formative
and
motivating
.
Some
of
the
best
and
most
gratifying
experiences
of
our
lives
are
also
the
most
distracting
and
demotivating
.
Don
’
t
trust
your
conception
of
positive
/
negative
experiences
.
All
that
we
know
for
certain
is
what
hurts
in
the
moment
and
what
doesn
’
t
.
And
that
’
s
not
worth
much
.
Just
as
we
look
back
in
horror
at
the
lives
of
people
five
hundred
years
ago
,
I
imagine
people
five
hundred
years
from
now
will
laugh
at
us
and
our
certainties
today
.
They
will
laugh
at
how
we
let
our
money
and
our
jobs
define
our
lives
.
They
will
laugh
at
how
we
were
afraid
to
show
appreciation
for
those
who
matter
to
us
most
,
yet
heaped
praise
on
public
figures
who
didn
’
t
deserve
anything
.
They
will
laugh
at
our
rituals
and
superstitions
,
our
worries
and
our
wars
;
they
will
gawk
at
our
cruelty
.
They
will
study
our
art
and
argue
over
our
history
.
They
will
understand
truths
about
us
of
which
none
of
us
are
yet
aware
.
And
they
,
too
,
will
be
wrong
.
Just
less
wrong
than
we
were
.
Architects
of
Our
Own
Beliefs
Try
this
.
Take
a
random
person
and
put
them
in
a
room
with
some
buttons
to
push
.
Then
tell
them
that
if
they
do
something
specific
—
some
undefined
something
that
they
have
to
figure
out
—
a
light
will
flash
on
indicating
that
they
’
ve
won
a
point
.
Then
tell
them
to
see
how
many
points
they
can
earn
within
a
thirty
-
minute
period
.
