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For
many
people
this
passes
as
self
-
awareness
.
And
yet
,
if
they
were
able
to
go
deeper
and
look
at
their
underlying
values
,
they
would
see
that
their
original
analysis
was
based
on
avoiding
responsibility
for
their
own
problem
,
rather
than
accurately
identifying
the
problem
.
They
would
see
that
their
decisions
were
based
on
chasing
highs
,
not
generating
true
happiness
.
Most
self
-
help
gurus
ignore
this
deeper
level
of
self
-
awareness
as
well
.
They
take
people
who
are
miserable
because
they
want
to
be
rich
,
and
then
give
them
all
sorts
of
advice
on
how
to
make
more
money
,
all
the
while
ignoring
important
values
-
based
questions
:
Why
do
they
feel
such
a
need
to
be
rich
in
the
first
place
?
How
are
they
choosing
to
measure
success
/
failure
for
themselves
?
Is
it
not
perhaps
some
particular
value
that
’
s
the
root
cause
of
their
unhappiness
,
and
not
the
fact
that
they
don
’
t
drive
a
Bentley
yet
?
Much
of
the
advice
out
there
operates
at
a
shallow
level
of
simply
trying
to
make
people
feel
good
in
the
short
term
,
while
the
real
long
-
term
problems
never
get
solved
.
People
’
s
perceptions
and
feelings
may
change
,
but
the
underlying
values
,
and
the
metrics
by
which
those
values
are
assessed
,
stay
the
same
.
This
is
not
real
progress
.
This
is
just
another
way
to
achieve
more
highs
.
Honest
self
-
questioning
is
difficult
.
It
requires
asking
yourself
simple
questions
that
are
uncomfortable
to
answer
.
In
fact
,
in
my
experience
,
the
more
uncomfortable
the
answer
,
the
more
likely
it
is
to
be
true
.
Take
a
moment
and
think
of
something
that
’
s
really
bugging
you
.
Now
ask
yourself
why
it
bugs
you
.
Chances
are
the
answer
will
involve
a
failure
of
some
sort
.
Then
take
that
failure
and
ask
why
it
seems
“
true
”
to
you
.
What
if
that
failure
wasn
’
t
really
a
failure
?
What
if
you
’
ve
been
looking
at
it
the
wrong
way
?
A
recent
example
from
my
own
life
:
“
It
bugs
me
that
my
brother
doesn
’
t
return
my
texts
or
emails
.
”
Why
?
“
Because
it
feels
like
he
doesn
’
t
give
a
shit
about
me
.
”
