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When
you
’
re
pursuing
a
wide
breadth
of
experience
,
there
are
diminishing
returns
to
each
new
adventure
,
each
new
person
or
thing
.
When
you
’
ve
never
left
your
home
country
,
the
first
country
you
visit
inspires
a
massive
perspective
shift
,
because
you
have
such
a
narrow
experience
base
to
draw
on
.
But
when
you
’
ve
been
to
twenty
countries
,
the
twenty
-
first
adds
little
.
And
when
you
’
ve
been
to
fifty
,
the
fifty
-
first
adds
even
less
.
The
same
goes
for
material
possessions
,
money
,
hobbies
,
jobs
,
friends
,
and
romantic
/
sexual
partners
—
all
the
lame
superficial
values
people
choose
for
themselves
.
The
older
you
get
,
the
more
experienced
you
get
,
the
less
significantly
each
new
experience
affects
you
.
The
first
time
I
drank
at
a
party
was
exciting
.
The
hundredth
time
was
fun
.
The
five
hundredth
time
felt
like
a
normal
weekend
.
And
the
thousandth
time
felt
boring
and
unimportant
.
The
big
story
for
me
personally
over
the
past
few
years
has
been
my
ability
to
open
myself
up
to
commitment
.
I
’
ve
chosen
to
reject
all
but
the
very
best
people
and
experiences
and
values
in
my
life
.
I
shut
down
all
my
business
projects
and
decided
to
focus
on
writing
full
-
time
.
Since
then
,
my
website
has
become
more
popular
than
I
’
d
ever
imagined
possible
.
I
’
ve
committed
to
one
woman
for
the
long
haul
and
,
to
my
surprise
,
have
found
this
more
rewarding
than
any
of
the
flings
,
trysts
,
and
one
-
night
stands
I
had
in
the
past
.
I
’
ve
committed
to
a
single
geographic
location
and
doubled
down
on
the
handful
of
my
significant
,
genuine
,
healthy
friendships
.
And
what
I
’
ve
discovered
is
something
entirely
counterintuitive
:
that
there
is
a
freedom
and
liberation
in
commitment
I
’
ve
found
increased
opportunity
and
upside
in
rejecting
alternatives
and
distractions
in
favor
of
what
I
’
ve
chosen
to
let
truly
matter
to
me
.
Commitment
gives
you
freedom
because
you
’
re
no
longer
distracted
by
the
unimportant
and
frivolous
.
Commitment
gives
you
freedom
because
it
hones
your
attention
and
focus
,
directing
them
toward
what
is
most
efficient
at
making
you
healthy
and
happy
.
Commitment
makes
decision
-
making
easier
and
removes
any
fear
of
missing
out
;
knowing
that
what
you
already
have
is
good
enough
,
why
would
you
ever
stress
about
chasing
more
,
more
,
more
again
?
Commitment
allows
you
to
focus
intently
on
a
few
highly
important
goals
and
achieve
a
greater
degree
of
success
than
you
otherwise
would
.
In
this
way
,
the
rejection
of
alternatives
liberates
us
—
rejection
of
what
does
not
align
with
our
most
important
values
,
with
our
chosen
metrics
,
rejection
of
the
constant
pursuit
of
breadth
without
depth
.
Yes
,
breadth
of
experience
is
likely
necessary
and
desirable
when
you
’
re
young
—
after
all
,
you
have
to
go
out
there
and
discover
what
seems
worth
investing
yourself
in
.
But
depth
is
where
the
gold
is
buried
.
And
you
have
to
stay
committed
to
something
and
go
deep
to
dig
it
up
.
That
’
s
true
in
relationships
,
in
a
career
,
in
building
a
great
lifestyle
—
in
everything
.
Seek
the
truth
for
yourself
,
and
I
will
meet
you
there
.
”
