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My
recommendation
:
don
’
t
be
special
;
don
’
t
be
unique
.
Redefine
your
metrics
in
mundane
and
broad
ways
.
Choose
to
measure
yourself
not
as
a
rising
star
or
an
undiscovered
genius
.
Choose
to
measure
yourself
not
as
some
horrible
victim
or
dismal
failure
.
Instead
,
measure
yourself
by
more
mundane
identities
:
a
student
,
a
partner
,
a
friend
,
a
creator
.
The
narrower
and
rarer
the
identity
you
choose
for
yourself
,
the
more
everything
will
seem
to
threaten
you
.
For
that
reason
,
define
yourself
in
the
simplest
and
most
ordinary
ways
possible
.
This
often
means
giving
up
some
grandiose
ideas
about
yourself
:
that
you
’
re
uniquely
intelligent
,
or
spectacularly
talented
,
or
intimidatingly
attractive
,
or
especially
victimized
in
ways
other
people
could
never
imagine
.
This
means
giving
up
your
sense
of
entitlement
and
your
belief
that
you
’
re
somehow
owed
something
by
this
world
.
This
means
giving
up
the
supply
of
emotional
highs
that
you
’
ve
been
sustaining
yourself
on
for
years
.
Like
a
junkie
giving
up
the
needle
,
you
’
re
going
to
go
through
withdrawal
when
you
start
giving
these
things
up
.
But
you
’
ll
come
out
the
other
side
so
much
better
.
How
to
Be
a
Little
Less
Certain
of
Yourself
Questioning
ourselves
and
doubting
our
own
thoughts
and
beliefs
is
one
of
the
hardest
skills
to
develop
.
But
it
can
be
done
.
Here
are
some
questions
that
will
help
you
breed
a
little
more
uncertainty
in
your
life
.
Question
#
1
:
What
if
I
’
m
wrong
?
A
friend
of
mine
recently
got
engaged
to
be
married
.
The
guy
who
proposed
to
her
is
pretty
solid
.
He
doesn
’
t
drink
.
He
doesn
’
t
hit
her
or
mistreat
her
.
He
’
s
friendly
and
has
a
good
job
.
But
since
the
engagement
,
my
friend
’
s
brother
has
been
admonishing
her
nonstop
about
her
immature
life
choices
,
warning
her
that
she
’
s
going
to
hurt
herself
with
this
guy
,
that
she
’
s
making
a
mistake
,
that
she
’
s
being
irresponsible
.
And
whenever
my
friend
asks
her
brother
,
“
What
is
your
problem
?
Why
does
this
bother
you
so
much
?
”
he
acts
as
though
there
is
no
problem
,
that
nothing
about
the
engagement
bothers
him
,
that
he
’
s
just
trying
to
be
helpful
and
look
out
for
his
little
sister
.
But
it
’
s
clear
that
something
does
bother
him
.
Perhaps
it
’
s
his
own
insecurities
about
getting
married
.
Perhaps
it
’
s
a
sibling
rivalry
thing
.
Perhaps
it
’
s
jealousy
.
Perhaps
he
’
s
just
so
caught
up
in
his
own
victimhood
that
he
doesn
’
t
know
how
to
show
happiness
for
others
without
trying
to
make
them
feel
miserable
first
.
