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I
say
don
’
t
find
yourself
.
I
say
never
know
who
you
are
.
Because
that
’
s
what
keeps
you
striving
and
discovering
.
And
it
forces
you
to
remain
humble
in
your
judgments
and
accepting
of
the
differences
in
others
.
Kill
Yourself
Buddhism
argues
that
your
idea
of
who
“
you
”
are
is
an
arbitrary
mental
construction
and
that
you
should
let
go
of
the
idea
that
“
you
”
exist
at
all
;
that
the
arbitrary
metrics
by
which
you
define
yourself
actually
trap
you
,
and
thus
you
’
re
better
off
letting
go
of
everything
.
In
a
sense
,
you
could
say
that
Buddhism
encourages
you
to
not
give
a
fuck
.
It
sounds
wonky
,
but
there
are
some
psychological
benefits
to
this
approach
to
life
.
When
we
let
go
of
the
stories
we
tell
about
ourselves
,
to
ourselves
,
we
free
ourselves
up
to
actually
act
(
and
fail
)
and
grow
.
When
someone
admits
to
herself
,
“
You
know
,
maybe
I
’
m
not
good
at
relationships
,
”
then
she
is
suddenly
free
to
act
and
end
her
bad
marriage
.
She
has
no
identity
to
protect
by
staying
in
a
miserable
,
crappy
marriage
just
to
prove
something
to
herself
.
When
the
student
admits
to
himself
,
“
You
know
,
maybe
I
’
m
not
a
rebel
;
maybe
I
’
m
just
scared
,
”
then
he
’
s
free
to
be
ambitious
again
.
He
has
no
reason
to
feel
threatened
by
pursuing
his
academic
dreams
and
maybe
failing
.
When
the
insurance
adjuster
admits
to
himself
,
“
You
know
,
maybe
there
’
s
nothing
unique
or
special
about
my
dreams
or
my
job
,
”
then
he
’
s
free
to
give
that
screenplay
an
honest
go
and
see
what
happens
.
I
have
both
some
good
news
and
some
bad
news
for
you
:
there
is
little
that
is
unique
or
special
about
your
problems
.
That
’
s
why
letting
go
is
so
liberating
.
There
’
s
a
kind
of
self
-
absorption
that
comes
with
fear
based
on
an
irrational
certainty
.
When
you
assume
that
your
plane
is
the
one
that
’
s
going
to
crash
,
or
that
your
project
idea
is
the
stupid
one
everyone
is
going
to
laugh
at
,
or
that
you
’
re
the
one
everyone
is
going
to
choose
to
mock
or
ignore
,
you
’
re
implicitly
telling
yourself
,
“
I
’
m
the
exception
;
I
’
m
unlike
everybody
else
;
I
’
m
different
and
special
.
”
This
is
narcissism
,
pure
and
simple
.
You
feel
as
though
your
problems
deserve
to
be
treated
differently
,
that
your
problems
have
some
unique
math
to
them
that
doesn
’
t
obey
the
laws
of
the
physical
universe
.
