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You
would
have
to
choose
what
to
do
.
And
whatever
you
ended
up
choosing
(
keeping
it
,
getting
rid
of
it
,
ignoring
it
,
feeding
it
to
a
pit
bull
)
,
there
would
be
problems
associated
with
your
choice
—
and
you
would
be
responsible
for
those
as
well
.
Judges
don
’
t
get
to
choose
their
cases
.
When
a
case
goes
to
court
,
the
judge
assigned
to
it
did
not
commit
the
crime
,
was
not
a
witness
to
the
crime
,
and
was
not
affected
by
the
crime
,
but
he
or
she
is
still
responsible
for
the
crime
.
The
judge
must
then
choose
the
consequences
;
he
or
she
must
identify
the
metric
against
which
the
crime
will
be
measured
and
make
sure
that
the
chosen
metric
is
carried
out
.
We
are
responsible
for
experiences
that
aren
’
t
our
fault
all
the
time
.
This
is
part
of
life
.
Here
’
s
one
way
to
think
about
the
distinction
between
the
two
concepts
.
Fault
is
past
tense
.
Responsibility
is
present
tense
.
Fault
results
from
choices
that
have
already
been
made
.
Responsibility
results
from
the
choices
you
’
re
currently
making
,
every
second
of
every
day
.
You
are
choosing
to
read
this
.
You
are
choosing
to
think
about
the
concepts
.
You
are
choosing
to
accept
or
reject
the
concepts
.
It
may
be
my
fault
that
you
think
my
ideas
are
lame
,
but
you
are
responsible
for
coming
to
your
own
conclusions
.
It
’
s
not
your
fault
that
I
chose
to
write
this
sentence
,
but
you
are
still
responsible
for
choosing
to
read
it
(
or
not
)
.
There
’
s
a
difference
between
blaming
someone
else
for
your
situation
and
that
person
’
s
actually
being
responsible
for
your
situation
.
Nobody
else
is
ever
responsible
for
your
situation
but
you
.
Many
people
may
be
to
blame
for
your
unhappiness
,
but
nobody
is
ever
responsible
for
your
unhappiness
but
you
.
This
is
because
you
always
get
to
choose
how
you
see
things
,
how
you
react
to
things
,
how
you
value
things
.
You
always
get
to
choose
the
metric
by
which
to
measure
your
experiences
.
My
first
girlfriend
dumped
me
in
spectacular
fashion
.
She
was
cheating
on
me
with
her
teacher
.
It
was
awesome
.
And
by
awesome
,
I
mean
it
felt
like
getting
punched
in
the
stomach
about
253
times
.
To
make
things
worse
,
when
I
confronted
her
about
it
,
she
promptly
left
me
for
him
.
Three
years
together
,
down
the
toilet
just
like
that
.
I
was
miserable
for
months
afterward
.
That
was
to
be
expected
.
But
I
also
held
her
responsible
for
my
misery
.
Which
,
take
it
from
me
,
didn
’
t
get
me
very
far
.
It
just
made
the
misery
worse
.
See
,
I
couldn
’
t
control
her
.
No
matter
how
many
times
I
called
her
,
or
screamed
at
her
,
or
begged
her
to
take
me
back
,
or
made
surprise
visits
to
her
place
,
or
did
other
creepy
and
irrational
ex
-
boyfriend
things
,
I
could
never
control
her
emotions
or
her
actions
.
Ultimately
,
while
she
was
to
blame
for
how
I
felt
,
she
was
never
responsible
for
how
I
felt
.
I
was
.
At
some
point
,
after
enough
tears
and
alcohol
,
my
thinking
began
to
shift
and
I
began
to
understand
that
although
she
had
done
something
horrible
to
me
and
she
could
be
blamed
for
that
,
it
was
now
my
own
responsibility
to
make
myself
happy
again
.
She
was
never
going
to
pop
up
and
fix
things
for
me
.
I
had
to
fix
them
for
myself
.
